This purpose of this website is to share ideas and methods on making software engineering jobs fair. What I mean by fair is the following:
It is perfectly reasonable to ask engineers to treat each other with respect, and attempt to conduct debates in a cool and calm fashion. It is also acceptable to have a discussion with an engineer to determine why they are upset if there is some underlying cause for the agression. It is acceptable to say "this person was offended by how you spoke to them, please talk with this person and work it out". It is acceptable to have an intermediary present to see how that discussion goes. Etc.
We should strive for a workplace where we care about each other and pay attention when anyone is upset, to reduce tension and solve problems as they arise.